This is what our contract ended up looking like after months of negotiation, please feel free to copy and paste it and modify it to make it your own. There are many things in here that are very specific to us, so please don't think that you have to use them. I hope that this helps some of you. LRM
Contract for Daddy/babygirl
Daddy and babygirl Agreement
Created on _______________
This document serves as an agreement which defines, in specific terms, the power exchange relationship and interaction between two individuals, hereafter to be referred as the Daddy and the babygirl. This agreement is only binding between the two parties signed below, and is entered into voluntarily with both parties fully agreeing to the conditions outlined herein.
This agreement is intended to guide these two individuals on their journey together, and while the babygirl’s primary intention is to please the Daddy, it is also intended to shape her into a better, happier, and stronger woman, and to help the couple grow together lovingly, spiritually, mentally, and physically. That this agreement shall serve as the basis for an extension of the relationship. It is committed to in the spirit of love and consent anid of the couples further exploration of Dominance and submission with the intention of greater self-awareness and of promoting a happy, healthy and fulfilled life with each other.
This contract has a period of 2 months, and at its expiration a new contract may be renegotiated, created and executed.
Section I: The Daddy’s role
a. The Daddy will care for the babygirl to include tending to her physical safety, emotional and mental well-being as long as He owns the babygirl. Through this agreement the babygirl is to be considered the Daddy’s property and as such His most prized possession.
b. The Daddy will commit to treat the babygirl properly, to train and discipline her, to punish her, to love her, and to use her as He sees fit with consistency.
c. The Daddy will accept the responsibility to use His power to mold and shape the babygirl, to assist her to grow in strength, character, confidence and being, and to help her become a better woman in all areas of her life.
d. The Daddy will not ever purposefully ignore the babygirl. The Daddy will remain in regular contact with her and not make her feel ignored or isolated by Him, via text, phone calls, and or e-mails.
e. The Daddy’s will, with applicable assistance from the babygirl, watch for and prevent any mental or emotional trauma which may stem from the condition of servitude, and activities within the condition of service or any other variable that is based within the confines of this contract.
f. The Daddy will work with the babygirl on her path to becoming a happier and more self-fulfilled individual.
g. The Daddy will be faithful to the babygirl as prescribed within this agreement under section III, and will be honest and loyal to her at all times.
h. The Daddy will always be open to the babygirl’s concerns and thoughts, worries and stresses, and will encourage her to always be open and to express her feelings and concerns to Him without fear of punishment.
i. The Daddy will not submit the babygirl to a scene when He might not be in the proper frame of mind to administer it.
j. The Daddy will always support the babygirl through encouragement in her relationships with family and friends and well as through her career and professional life.
k. The Daddy will not keep the babygirl isolated from her friends or her paramours.
l. The Daddy will not keep the babygirl or their relationship isolated from other aspects of His daily life.
m. The Daddy will take the desires and fantasies of the babygirl seriously and help her to achieve them.
n. The Daddy will remember that the babygirl is a little and that she needs that space and time and encouragement to be little on a regular basis.
o. The Daddy will not address anyone else as babygirl as long as they are in any kind of a relationship.
p. The Daddy will address the babygirl by her given name if He needs to speak with her specifically in an adult headspace.
q. The Daddy will have Google calendar installed on His phone and will use it to set up appointments, to plan and track dates, events and schedules with the babygirl.
The Daddy’s Duties Shall Include But Are Not Limited To:
1) Brushing out the babygirl’s hair before bed.
2) Tucking the babygirl into bed to include collaring and chaining her and giving her, her binky.
3) Picking out the babygirl’s clothes before going out.
4) Cutting the babygirl’s food.
5) Opening doors for the babygirl.
6) Planning scenes and aftercare for the babygirl.
7) Making dates between Daddy and the babygirl.
8) Actively listening to the babygirl when she needs to talk.
9) Cuddling with the babygirl.
10) Planning bath time with the babygirl.
11) Watching movies with the babygirl.
12) Bathing and showering with the babygirl.
13) Reading bedtime stories to the babygirl.
14) Coloring with the babygirl.
15) Lighting the babygirl’s cigarettes while outside the home.
16) Daily maintenance spankings for the babygirl.
17) The Daddy will maintain the property on the outside of the home, make any repairs to the home as needed and conduct general maintenance as needed.
18) The Daddy will maintain the vehicles and conduct all scheduled required maintenance on them as needed.
19) Giving the babygirl time limits for specific activities.
20) Giving the babygirl a set bedtime.
Section II: The babygirl’s role
a. The babygirl will obey and please the Daddy to the best of her ability.
b. The babygirl will put her utmost trust into the Daddy with the knowledge that understanding He will hold such as sacred and never betray that trust.
c. The babygirl will follow rules, guidelines and protocols as established by the Daddy, with the understanding that breaking one of these will result in some form of punishment as dictated by the Daddy.
d. The babygirl will agree to follow the direction and commands from the Daddy both in and out of the bedroom.
e. The babygirl will respond to the sexual needs of the Daddy at any time, for any length of time and in any manner that he sees fit, unless responding to His needs violates any other aspect of this contract. This includes engaging in sexual activities with the Daddy that might be outside of her comfort zone, but she will do them as they please him.
f. The babygirl will be faithful to the Daddy as prescribed under section III and will be honest and loyal to him at all times.
g. The babygirl will, at all times, act in a manner that is respectful of and to the Daddy, to include manners of speech, promptness, proper answers, obedience, loyalty, and honesty, i.e. yes Daddy, no Daddy, please Daddy, thank you Daddy etc. This is with the understanding and mutual agreement that this premise be a foremost concern, but should not lead to or facilitate the babygirl to totally lose who she is as a person, or change her natural personality.
h. The babygirl will take proper care of her body in a manner that is pleasing to the Daddy, and with guidance from Him if necessary. She will not for example, get a tattoo or piercing or cut or color her hair to any extreme or even get a sunburn and cause damage to the Daddy’s property.
i. The babygirl will, make other adjustments to her lifestyle if the situations feel’s warranted by the Daddy to make such demands of her.
j. The babygirl will maintain regular contact with the Daddy, to include informing Him of her schedule and activities. Regular contact is to include phone calls, text messages, or emails. The babygirl will do everything in her capacity to respond promptly to all communications from the Daddy, and must never make the Daddy feel ignored by her.
k. The babygirl will not keep the Daddy or their relationship isolated from other aspects of her daily life.
l. The babygirl will not keep the Daddy isolated from His friends or paramours.
m. The babygirl will use “yellow” as a warning word to request that the Daddy slow down, ease up, or change direction while continuing the scene or session. She will use “RED” or “POPCORN” to immediately end a scene or session. The Daddy’s reliance on safewords obligates the babygirl to use them and she will do so.
n. The babygirl will strive to overcome feelings of guilt or shame and all inhibitions that interfere with her capability to please the Daddy and that limit her growth as His babygirl.
o. The babygirl will strive to reveal her thoughts, feelings, fantasies and desires without hesitation or embarrassment and without being constantly prodded to by the Daddy recognizing that He is the judge of whether or how these shall be satisfied.
p. The babygirl will strive to maintain a positive self-image and to develop realistic expectations and goals for her self-improvement.
q. The babygirl will work with the Daddy to become a happier and more self-fulfilled individual.
r. The babygirl will strive to work against negative aspects of her ego and her insecurities that would interfere with advancement of these aims.
The babygirl’s Duties Shall Include But Are Not Limited To:
1) Cooking for the Daddy.
2) Cleaning the house for the Daddy.
3) Keeping up with the couple’s household laundry.
4) Making sure that the Daddy looks His best when going out.
5) Trimming the Daddy’s hair when needed.
6) Pleasing the Daddy at home and when out.
7) Encouraging the Daddy to be the best that He can be.
8) Cuddling with the Daddy.
9) Watching movies with the Daddy.
10) Coloring special pictures for the Daddy.
11) Staying within prescribed protocols that the Daddy lays out for specific events.
Section III: Other Partners
It is mutually understood that both parties entered this relationship as polyamorous people. Both parties agree to discuss any potential partners with each other and to develop acceptable boundaries to remain true to the relationship created within this agreement.
Both parties herein will express their desires and interests in and for each other to have other intimate partners. Both parties agree that any intimate partners of their choosing must agree to all hard limits and to treat their relationship with respect and accept all established boundaries.
Both the Daddy and the babygirl agree to get the STI screening results of any new partners before engaging in any sexual activity with them. They will maintain safe sex practices with said new partners at all times, by getting regular quarterly STI screening for themselves. It shall be expected that any paramours to be required to present quarterly STI screenings or all sexual activity shall cease henceforth. The Daddy and the babygirl are fluid bonded and shall not become fluid bonded with anyone else unless agreed upon by all parties beforehand.
Section IV: Limits
The Daddy and the babygirl will discuss and provide one another a listing of hard and soft limits. At the execution of this contract it is mutually agreed upon that the hard limits will include: no permanent marks of any kind i.e. piercings, cauterizations, brands, scarifications, hook suspensions, or any other permanent bodily harm, no illegal activities or any play involving children, animals, no play involving blood, scat or direct fire.
Section V: Punishments
The Daddy and the babygirl mutually agree that appropriate punishments are necessary for the growth and development of the babygirl. Punishments shall be dependent on the severity of the babygirl’s infraction. Punishments will be used to change the behavior and act as a series of checks and balances to remind both the Daddy and the babygirl of this agreement.
The Daddy will inform the babygirl that she is being punished when the infraction occurs. He will explain the reason for punishment before executing it. The Daddy agrees to discipline only out of a desire to better the babygirl, and further agrees to never punish out of, or during, feelings of anger.
Section VI: Alteration of contract
This contract may not be altered, except when both the Daddy and the babygirl jointly agree. If the contract is altered, the new contract shall be printed and executed, and then the old contract must be destroyed.
Section VII: Termination of Contract
Should either the Daddy or the babygirl find that their aspirations are not being well served by this agreement, or if they find this commitment too burdensome, or for any other reason wish to cancel, either may do so by verbal notification to the other, such will keep to consensual nature of the agreement.
Both parties understand that such a cancellation would mean a cessation of the power exchange dynamic and control stated and implied within this agreement, but not a termination of their relationship as friends and/or lovers. Should the relationship as friends and/or lovers terminate, this agreement becomes null and void.
If one of the parties has come to the point that they are petitioning to cancel this agreement each party will agree to offer the other their reasons and will assess their new needs and situation openly and lovingly.
GOALS FOR THE BABYGIRL FOR THE NEXT TWO MONTHS
1. To start working on a personal physical fitness routine.
2. To work harder on her website.
3. To become more focused on her work throughout the day.
4. To eat healthier.
GOALS FOR THE DADDY FOR THE NEXT TWO MONTHS
1. To start working on a personal physical fitness routine.
2. To work on His personal growth.
3. Reach out to other people in the community to establish and perpetuate new friendships.
4. Start a new project.
Section VIII: Execution Of Contract
Upon execution of this contract the Daddy will collar the babygirl, this collar is to be considered a training collar to be worn throughout the life of this contract. This collar shall not be removed for any reason unless requested of the Daddy and agreed upon by the Daddy, unless this contract becomes null and void by either party or there is a medical emergency or for cleaning purposes while at home. It shall be a mutual goal to fulfill this contract and at the end of its life renegotiate it as necessary and to execute subsequent contracts and for the collar to become permanent.
The babygirl’s signature:
With a free mind and open heart; I do request of the Daddy that He will accept the submission of my will unto Him and take me into His care and guidance, that we may grow together in love, trust, and mutual respect. The satisfaction of His wants, desires, and whims are consistent with my desire as a babygirl to be found pleasing to Him. To that end, I offer Him the use of my time, talents, abilities, and love.
My surrender as a babygirl is done with the knowledge that nothing asked of me that will demean me as a person, and will in no way diminish my own responsibilities toward making use of my potential.
Printed Name________________Signature__________________ Date_______
The Daddy’s Signature:
I have read and fully understand this contract in its entirety. I agree to accept this babygirl as my property, and to care for her to the best of my ability. I shall command her, control her, train her, love her, and punish her as My babygirl. I shall always treat her with respect. I understand the responsibilities implicit in this arrangement, and agree that no harm shall come to the babygirl as long as she is Mine, under My care and My control.
Printed Name_____________Signature____________________ Date________